Boring on Purpose!
Boring on Purpose!
📱 How Much Time Do You Waste on Your Phone?
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I see my generation slipping into a digital black hole—eyes glued to screens, minds hijacked by endless notifications, fingers scrolling through an infinite feed of nothingness. I watch my friends losing sleep, their attention spans shrinking, their real-world ambitions fading.
And I refuse to be one of them.
I’m not against technology—I’m against being controlled by it. I know that if I let my smartphone dictate my habits, I’ll lose hours, days, even years to mindless scrolling. So, I’ve made a choice. Instead of letting my phone run my life, I’ve taken control.
I’ve turned my smartphone into a dumb phone—on purpose. Here’s how.
I am 15 years old, and until recently, I did not have a smartphone—not because my parents wouldn’t get me one, but because I didn’t want one. I had seen my friends constantly glued to their phones, endlessly scrolling, always anxious about what was happening online. I didn’t want to be like that.
When I was 10, I had a phone without a SIM card. I broke it shortly after getting it, but before that, I was hooked on playing Subway Surfers. Key after key, coin after coin—I was addicted. When my phone broke, I lost access to the game, but every summer when I visited my grandparents, I played on their Android phones since I wasn’t allowed to use my parents’ phones for games.
By the time I turned 13, I realized that this was an addiction. Reading Atomic Habits made me more curious about behavior, habits, and the cue-reward system. One day, I came across the term “behavioral addiction,” and to my surprise, social media addiction was listed as one of them. That’s when I understood—this wasn’t just about willpower. Social media and smartphones were designed to be addictive.
The Trap of Smartphone Addiction
As I started taking my academics more seriously, I noticed that I would begin watching one educational video but then get sucked into a vortex of 10 unrelated, useless videos. By “useless,” I mean videos that had no relevance to my goals or personal growth. I firmly believe that 95% of social media is a waste of time, no matter your field. Even content creators struggle because they get distracted. Ironically, artists who rely on social media to showcase their work often take breaks from it to actually create.
At 14, I was determined not to get a phone. I knew myself—I knew I would get hooked. But as time passed, I realized that the goal wasn’t just to avoid having a phone; it was to ensure that I was not addicted to it. And addiction isn’t entirely our fault. Tech companies spend billions to make their apps more enticing. Some of the world’s brightest psychologists work behind the scenes to keep us glued to our screens. But we can break free.
So when I finally got a phone, I decided to turn it into a dumb phone. Here’s how I did it.
How I Made My Smartphone Minimalist
1. Uninstall All Social Media Apps
I removed all social media apps from my phone. If I needed to access them, I used a browser instead, which adds friction and discourages mindless scrolling. Personally, I don’t intend to use social media on my phone at all.
2. Turn on Grayscale Mode
Social media apps use bright colors strategically. As humans, we associate bright colors with excitement and reward. Our hunter-gatherer ancestors relied on bright fruits to signal nutrition, and our brains still react the same way. These colors trigger dopamine release, reinforcing compulsive behavior. By switching to grayscale mode, my phone became visually unappealing, making me less likely to engage with it unnecessarily.
3. Install Only Essential Apps
I only kept apps that genuinely help me on my home screen:
Notion – To jot down random thoughts.
Notion Calendar – To keep track of my schedule.
Google Calendar – For important dates and planning.
Forest – To stay focused.
Alarmy – To wake up without endless snoozing.
4. Customize the Home Screen
I experimented with different methods:
My phone had an inbuilt “Simple View” that displayed only five essential apps in a retro style.
I also tried Olauncher, a minimalistic launcher that removes icons and only shows text-based shortcuts. This made my phone feel even less appealing and more functional.
5. Turn Off All Notifications
I disabled notifications for everything except essential calls and reminders. Notifications create a constant hum of anxiety, pulling us back into our phones. The anticipation of checking messages and likes is a form of gambling—each time you check, you might get a reward, or you might not. This unpredictability makes us compulsively check our phones. When our expectations aren’t met (like getting fewer likes than expected), our dopamine levels drop, making us feel bad. This cycle of highs and lows has contributed to the rise of anxiety and depression in my generation.
6. Use Do Not Disturb & Set Limits
I enabled Do Not Disturb (DND) and created an exception list that only allows calls. I don’t need to check messages constantly. I also set app limits—on Android, after Android 9, you can restrict app usage. I limited YouTube to just Thursdays at 5:30 PM as part of my** digital minimalism journey**, inspired by Digital Minimalism by Cal Newport.
7. Create No-Gadget Zones
I designated certain areas as phone-free zones. My study table, for instance, is strictly for deep work. If your work requires a phone, using a laptop instead can help reduce distractions. Laptops require more effort to navigate, making it less tempting to mindlessly scroll.
Additionally, I turned my laptop display to grayscale, similar to my phone. This setup mimics the e-ink look of a Kindle or an e-paper display, which I find calming.
8. Use “One Sec” for Mindful App Usage
I installed One Sec, an app that forces me to pause before opening distracting apps. This simple delay discourages impulsive scrolling. I also used Android’s Focus Mode to block certain apps completely.
The Emotional Reality: My Generation is Losing Itself
As I reflect on all of this, I feel deeply for my generation. So many people my age are unknowingly letting their lives slip away because of this addiction. I see my peers scrolling endlessly, losing sleep, missing out on real-life experiences. Their self-worth is tied to notifications and likes. They live in a loop of distractions, unable to focus on things that truly matter.
It breaks my heart because it’s not their fault. They are up against systems engineered to exploit their psychology. We are the first generation to grow up fully immersed in the digital world, and we are the experiment. The rise in mental health issues, reduced attention spans, and deteriorating real-world relationships—it’s all connected.
I don’t want to see my generation lost to screens. I don’t want us to wake up 10 years from now realizing we wasted our youth on an algorithm’s trap. We deserve better. We deserve to be present, to chase real ambitions, to build meaningful lives beyond the digital world. And if turning my smartphone into a dumb phone helps me break free, then so be it.
If you’ve read this far, I hope you at least consider making your phone boring. Maybe, just maybe, it will set you free. The choice is yours—stay trapped in an endless loop of distractions or reclaim your focus and your life. What will you choose?
Your phone shouldn’t control you—you should control it. Try making one small change today and see the difference. Let me know how it goes in the comments!
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Within a month of writing this I decided I didn't really 'need' a phone and stopped using one ( my screentime was less than 20 mins even when I owned one but still, the prospective of not owning a phone felt liberating!). I don't plan on owning a phone until absolutely necessary.
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